Wednesday, September 2, 2020

MY HEART GOES OUT TO RHEA CHAKRABORTY




It has been more than two and half months now of SSR’s death and from then till now, the media has been vigorously covering the day to day developments in the case in all its facets. Not even a single day has passed when the media has not come up with “another” sensationalised story in relation to SSR’s mysterious death.

Rhea Chakraborty who has been primarily “alleged” to have abetted SSR’s suicide has been horrifically targeted by the media and netizens. While some people have called her a “murderer”, some have tagged her as “drug mafia” and some people have even gone to the extent of calling her “a witch who has performed black magic on Sushant and drove him to suicide.” And why should they not? After all, our Constitution, the Constitution of one of the “largest democracy” in the world, in itself gives its people the right to freedom of speech and expression.

But let us not forget, the same very Constitution which gives its people the right to exercise this freedom of speech and expression, also provides for an equally powerful Constitutional Right- Right of the accused to be presumed innocent unless proven guilty and Right to Privacy. But it seems to me that the Right to freedom of speech and expression under Article 19 has somewhat overshadowed the Right to life and personal liberty of the accused provided under Article 21 of the Indian Constitution.

I still remember one of our initial classes on Criminal Procedure Code (CrPC) where we were being taught “The Jurisprudential Essence of CrPC”.
Reiterating a para from the class notes which reads - “Criminal Procedural Code has been enacted to do the balancing of interest between the conflicting individual interest where the accused is deemed to be presumed innocent unless proven guilty and the societal interest at large which requires the culprit to be punished for the crime that he has committed.” But what we fail to understand is that this societal interest also lies in the fact that the individual interest of the accused should be protected.

Investigations are still going on. There has not yet been a single piece of evidence to prove that it was the accused who is to be blamed for SSR’s death but the media has already declared her guilty. Media has been conducting parallel investigations into the case, needless to say, that it has taken upon itself the responsibility of an investigative agency to dig out the “real truth.” Not only has the media investigated and tried the case but has also pronounced its judgment- a judgment devoid of logic and backed by zero evidence. Well, if it is the responsibility of the media to investigate and try the case, what are the Police and Judges for?


Rhea Chakrovarty’s private life has been laid bare in public. Media has come down to a dirty level and all for the sake of  TRP. Let me remind you that it is the same media that had tried to spread nationwide hatred against people of Tablighi Jamaat by calling them as “terrorists” who had come specifically to spread the Covid-19 virus in India. Very recently, the Bombay High Court in its strong-worded judgment quashed the FIR against Tablighi Jamaat foreigners and held that they were made “scapegoats by the government” while criticizing the media propaganda. The same media had once relentlessly labelled Saravjit Singh, a Delhi resident as an “eve teaser” and “pervert” after allegations were levelled against him by Jasleen Kaur, a DU student who later failed to prove the charges. The Talwar parents who are now acquitted by the Allahabad High Court in Arushi Talwar double murder case were mercilessly implicated by the media based on their concocted and fictitious stories.


Rhea Chakraborty has been ridiculously subjected to trolls, abuses and mean comments from past few weeks which doesn't seem to end. This makes me question if she's really an accused or a victim? Honestly, to me, she is not an accused anymore but a victim- a victim of a vague and ruthless Media Trial. What if she comes out to be innocent at the end? Can she be sufficiently compensated for all the mental and physical harassment she had been made to go through all this while? The answer is clear NO.

I firmly believe that such filthy media trials cannot and should not be allowed. Such a rush to reach the judgment makes a fair trial hard to achieve. Media is considered to be the fourth pillar of democracy. The importance of media in shaping public opinion cannot be ruled out. The media would be completely justified to call for punishment for the perpetrator of a heinous crime but it cannot be allowed to step in the shoes of the judiciary and assume its functions. Moreover, we also must act and behave like well informed and responsible citizens of society and form our opinion likewise. 

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Other reads-

The Girl on the Train Read here
All you need to know before visiting the Great Rann of Kutch Read here
Fate or Faith? Read here
How I fell ill and still decided to go on my first ever solo trip Read here



Friday, April 10, 2020

THE GIRL ON THE TRAIN


Oh Yes! I've been the girl on the train lately.
Trains are hands down my favourite way to commute. They are a window to an unknown world. You can peek into a stranger’s life, share stories with them, exchange food or just be a silent observer. In the confinement of a few seats, there is much to do and see on the Indian Railways.

 I still remember the first time I travelled by train. I was hell nervous. Since we don't have railway connectivity back at our place, I wasn't much familiar with the whole process. It's not that I had not travelled on train before, but this time, it was different. I was on my own.

It was some 2-3 years back when I was travelling to Udaipur. My train was to depart at 5 in the morning from Jaipur. I couldn't sleep the whole night thinking how would I find the platform, my compartment and my seat. Everything seems so much complicated then. For first-timers like I was, it can be a bit of a daunting task.
I spent the entire night scrolling through various blogs which explained how to locate your train. Seeing me a little tensed, two fellow travellers at the hostel where I was staying offered to accompany me to the railway station. It was an instant relief. "But it wasn't a solution right? It was just an easy escape. But for how long?", I asked myself. "I will have to face it one day or the other, so why not today?", I said as I left for the station. I reached the station an hour before the train was to depart so that I had ample time to spot my train.
Now when I think about this day, it makes me laugh wondering what an idiot I was.

 So much has changed over the years. I am a lot more confident now.

  • I can now arrive 5 minutes before the departure time at the railway station and still have the courage to say "abhi bhut time hai apne pass, pehle kuch kha lete hain".
  • I can now walk in confidently in the Upper Class restroom or sit confidently in 3rd AC with a non-AC ticket in my pocket.
  • I can now travel by the train  anywhere across India without even having a ticket and I have now learnt to bribe the TT  for a ticket. (not very proud of it though).

I have been asked this question a lot of times if I feel safe to travel by train.

My rough calculations say that I've spent more than 360 hours in the train in the last two years that makes it approximately 15 days (300 let alone in sleeper). To name a few, I have travelled to Bhuj, Gujarat during Rann, to Prayagraj during Kumbh, to Kolkata and Hasimara (a place that touches border with Bhutan) and to Delhi from New Jalpaiguri during holi, all in sleeper coach. So I can proudly say that I have gained enough expertise over these years to share with you all.

Trains, especially the sleeper coach is considered to be highly unsafe for a solo female traveller since sleeper coaches are exposed to continuous intrusion and encroachment of unauthorised people. Various kinds of unwarranted vendors, transgenders, beggars enters the sleeper coach without any fear and often harass passengers. Sleeper coaches are rarely escorted by any police or security staff. Cases of theft, lifting, pickpocketing are highest in the sleeper class which is why it is generally not recommended for a woman specially if travelling alone.

I wouldn't completely deny the fact that traveling by train is unsafe for a woman but I also don't fully agree to it.

I've met all sorts of people in train- some really interesting personalities, some very weird souls, some people so selfless while some so selfish, some won't stop talking while some won't talk, some so indigent yet so warm. From making friends to being sexually harassed I have seen it all. But like they say, every coin has two sides, it is upon you to choose which side to look upon. Every experience I had, made me who I am- strong and fierce. 

Initially, I chose sleeper over any other class as it is unbelievably cheaper than the rest. But it was not late before I realised that there's a lot more to it (enough to break the monotony of the AC class) than just being one of the most budget-friendly modes of transport. You will come across a lot of articles on the internet which would recommend you not to travel alone by sleeper at any cost whatsoever. When I booked the ticket to Prayagraj during Kumbh I was slightly apprehensive of my safety since it was UP! (no further explanation required). To be on the safer side, I booked the woman compartment and to my surprise, the experience was completely different than I thought it was going to be. 

Solo travelling comes with a lot of advantages particularly when you're a female. Most of the time, people are more concerned about my safety than I am. I have had my share of experiences where people have gone an extra mile to help me. One recent incident was when I was coming back from Bhutan. Due to corona virus, we had to leave Bhutan early. Despite best efforts, I couldn't even get a waiting ticket (forget a confirmed one) since it was holi in the next two days and people were travelling back to their respective homes. The trains were fully packed. I had no option but to buy an ordinary ticket which meant I could travel by train but wouldn't get a seat for 30 hours straight. I boarded the train at NJP. I requested a fellow passenger to keep my luggage and went to stand at the door. I was the only girl in that compartment. Seeing me alone, many other co-passengers happily offered me their seats and made sure I felt safe and comfortable throughout the journey.
NJP TO DELHI FOR INR 380 ONLY/-


I won't be advising you travel tips here (like carrying a knife or a chilli spray). There are plenty of websites to do that for you. I would only say that before you decide to travel in sleeper, you need to be mentally prepared for all the unwanted stares, unsolicited advices, uninvited comments, and sexually coloured remarks that might come your way. I have always believed and lived by the ideology that safety lies in one's own hands. YOU FALL VULNERABLE THE MOMENT YOU ACT VULNERABLE. Believe you me, as long as you are confident from the inside, nobody can dare to harm you from outside. 

It has been rightly said, "In any given moment, we have two options- to step forward into growth or to step back into safety." I choose to grow. What about you?
SOME CHILLING

TEA GARDENS IN BENGAL
HASIMARA RAILWAY STATION

ENJOYING FIRST CLASS AC (THANKS TO MY BROTHER)

VIEW OF GANGA FROM KANPUR BRIDGE

CARRYING 11KG LUGGAGE ON MY BACK AND STILL SMILING

SHARING FOOD AND STORIES

KANPUR RAILWAY STATION
HOWRAH JUNCTION


MY FRIENDS CAME TO DROP ME AT THE STATION

CHILL SCENES

BAREILLY TO BHUJ

REACHING BHUJ


STANDING AT THE DOOR- MY FAV PASSTIME


OUTSKIRTS OF BENGAL

HOWRAH RAILWAY STATION

IRCTC FOOD
RAILWAY PANTRY

JAIPUR RAILWAY STATION

NEW DELHI RAILWAY STATION

READING BOOKS AT MIDNIGHT
HEAVEN'S DOOR



Read my other blogs here-

FATE OR FAITH click here
ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE GREAT RANN OF KUTCH click here
HOW I FELL ILL AND STILL DECIDED TO GO ON MY FIRST EVER SOLO TRIP click here

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